Anonymous said...
It is good to remember to show your love to the ones who love you daily. Those who love you in all the normal boring day to day chores. Those who see the good side and the dark side as the hours pass. The crowd loves us as we are passing by. The crowd does not come to aide. Nothing is stable in the crowd.
captron said...
I am pretty sure I know who you are, and to love another, one needs to trust this person. Respect has to be garnered by being integral,and not using the other person to get your needs met.
Relationships to be whole takes two whole people - not one who takes, takes and does not give to the relationship - the difference between a careTAKER & a careGIVER.
Anonymous said...
We have not met, Ron. Your postings have showed a gentle side and I appreciate them. If one speaks so highly of love for all, how can one claim it is only for "whole people"? Do you not believe love heals all and maks us "whole" when we parter with another? This give and take, respect and trust are all mental attachments to the pure love element.
captron said...
Good feedback Anonymous - I certainly take the unconditional out of love when I stated that, I found out you were not the person I thought you were, and I am very grateful of this dialogue - very helpful in my relationship! Please keep responding...
Well, it looks like "Anonymous" is not the person I thought she(he) was - however grateful for startup of dialogue!
Anonymous said...
No interest in being a relationship doctor from me. I am perfect flawed human
in forgiving coupling with my human Beloved. Not whole, yet, not looking to
separate from the high and low that gives divine balance and all meaning to
life. Can you see the balance of high and low equates give and take and equates
respect given and received! Your relationship longer than 12 months? It is a
success! for the path has not been perfect, correct? You two have seen high and
low, correct? You love beyond words of love, correct? What are you worried
about, then? Allow for mind to rest and accept that someone cares that much
for/about you in this big planet Really appreciate this feedback Anonymous (oh, "caregiver" & "caretaker" are used interchangably over hear - for nursing - I really see a big difference between "giving care" and "taking care" though.
really like -
You two have seen high and low, correct? You love beyond words of love, correct? What are you worried about, then? Allow for mind to rest and accept that someone cares that much for/about you in this big planet Thank you Anonymous!