Worry - What me? It disempowers me!

I never worry about being nice. I am when I feel the Divine love within naturally. I never try to impress anyone by being nice. I just enjoy being nice because I feel Divine love within me. That is being authentic. Being nice just to be nice without feeling where it originates is not being authentic. When I choose to operate from Divine love it comes out of me by being nice. When I choose to reveal someone who is out for themselves only, I might not be nice at all. It depends on whom and what they are saying and whether they are lying or telling the truth. ~Dean A. Banks, D.D.

Ron = Good reminder. I am stopping trying to please everyone around me.

Elizabeth May Sutor The desire to please, seems to me, to come from a place of fear. You cannot possibly please everyone. And why would you try? That is like stifling your voice, your viewpoint, your very self for the sake of popularity. Which is ironic, because then people end up liking a you that is not you at all. It's exhausting. I used to be there. No matter what there is always someone who is going to be a jerk, even when you are going out of your way to "be nice". And you end up resenting yourself for not speaking up for yourself. For pretending.Be you, Ron. Be your beautiful original authentic self. That is such a gift to the world.

Will you join the dance? (Have fun the Universe is a big ship)

Reader: "What's the fastest and most mighty way to attract a dream job? Okay, here's my situation: I already know what's my dream job, and I have the right credentials and experience to aspire to have it. Apart from doing all the right actions to have it, what would YOU--the Twelve--do in order to attract that dream job to your physical life?"

(The Universe is a really big ship, and it does no good to get out and push. Have fun and enjoy the journey.)

The first thing that we would do to attract this dream job is to spend as much time living in that dream state as possible. We would devote a 10-15 minute period of time morning and night—just after, and just before sleep—to occupying that state of being. We would want that place to feel very familiar to us. And we would want to occupy that state so thoroughly as to completely forget how we got there in the first place. Like vacationing in the islands, after the first day you have completely forgotten the plane ride or boat trip that got you there. Be immersed in that state for those 15 minutes. You want this place to feel natural to you like you have always been there. Imagine all the details.

Then while you are going about your daily activities, keep your mind upon positive, happy things that you find to appreciate, and upon creative, stimulating solutions to problems that appear before you. In other words, forget about it. Don’t give any further thought to your dream job during the day, but keep your attention upon bringing positivity and good feelings into your here-and-now moment, life experience.

The dream job belongs in the imaginal realm: loving womb of the Great Mother, where it can grow and develop in the manner the Universe sees most fitting. The Universe is well qualified for this midwifery and does best with less meddling from you. Simply trust that everything is going exactly right for the upcoming birth of your dream.

Here’s another analogy for you: Imagine you were on a cruise ship that was going to France. You know that France is out there somewhere, and you trust that the ship’s captain and navigator and crewmembers have things in hand. You trust that they will, by skilled seamanship and miracles of navigation, both modern and ancient, get you to the place you want to go.

So you do not spend your day standing at the rail fretting about the absence of France from your sight. You’re not asking “Where is it? We’ve been at sea for days.” No. Instead you find friends to talk to, things to do, games to play, have a drink, enjoy the pool, soak up some sun, enjoy the entertainment lined up for you. And then assuredly your ship arrives in port.

Live your life like you are on that ship whose destination is the one you have imagined and occupied in your mind. But your job now is to have fun, find joy, and bring positivity and hope to all those around you along the way. And when your destination appears on the horizon you will feel it, and you will feel right at home.

The Universe is a really big ship, and it does no good to get out and push. Have fun and enjoy the journey.

Namaste,
~Twelve
www.TwelveSpirit.net

I couldn’t resist naming this reply from the Twelve after “The Lobster Quadrille” in Alice In Wonderland. Whenever I’m on a journey with no immediate end in sight I am reminded of this verse:
“What matters it how far we go?” his scaly friend replied.
“There is another shore, you know, upon the other side.
The further off from England the nearer is to France—
Then turn not pale, beloved snail, but come and join the dance.
Will you, won’t you, will you, won’t you, will you join the
dance?

Blessings of light,
Larry

I Am, therefore I thank!

I am,
therefore I thank

.
Cindy Lubar Bishop

Love conquers anger

Patti Ferguson: "Love and Pain are like twins. They just pretend not to know each other." - Paul G. Paseli
And Pain is the primary feeling beneath the anger...... and for me the pain is about being out of sync with love. Finding that thought in my head and opening my heart to it's desires, helps me realize that there is only love and sometimes I am the one who has to Love even when I am feeling unlovable.

 

 

Sometimes we get mad at others for lying, cheating or taking advantage of others because that is in FACT what they are doing and we recognize the effect it has on someone else that we care for and want to protect. It is NOT necessarily that... we are trying to 'cover up' what we are projecting. It is out of love for another that we react with anger but ultimately it is up to us to channel that anger into love so that the Divine will handle it in Divine order. ~Dean A. Banks, D.D.

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    Ron Alexander Dean A. Banks Victims CHOOSE to be victims and rescuers CHOOSE to be rescuers. If you stand by and do NOTHING to defend those who don't understand what is going on then you are complicit in the aberrant behavior. And it is not always desperation. Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar. It is not you projecting anything it is you recognizing what it is for what it is and DOING something about it. Channeling anger into love is the healthy way to pro-act instead of react.
    
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    Jeeni Zucchini Anger is energy that wants to change something... how we choose to channel that intense energy is all important.

Envision & Resolve Happiness

Your success and happiness lie in you...
.Resolve to keep happy, and your
joy and you shall form an invincible
host against difficulties.
Helen Keller (gratefulness.org)

All come from the One Great Spirit

 

Ra Divakar thanks again Will Melies - sharing with Brother Ron Alexander. I know he

 

Create Beauty in your Life

Is it reality, or is it not reality? All things are reality. Even if only one is... imagining it, it is a reality in that the thought has been offered and someone, who has the ability to translate that vibration, will perceive it. It must be fair to say that anything that can be perceived must be reality. Because, as creators, your reality depends upon what you are willing to imagine and allow.

--- Abraham

Beautiful Reality indeed!

Beas Dev Chhabra Very True that one perceives a thing turns to reality.Afterall You are the creator as the soul is nothing but that part of the God within You which can even create a new world.

When we come upon beautiful things . . . they act like small tears in the surface of the world that pull us through to some vaster space.

Elaine Scarry

On Beauty and Being Just (gratefulness.org)