"In my defenselessness my safety lies." Best thing I learned from ACIM!
Miriam StJohn How about destructive criticism? smile emoticon
Stay defenseless no matter what - Byron Katy, when verbally attacked, would pause, look down (within) and say "I can find that." even if it was a vile curse like "betraying bitch".
Miriam StJohn I see the possibility of such an approach, but wonder about ignoring repeated criticism that turns into accepting abuse.
I find that abusers stop trying to abuse someone who is not affected by it.
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