Friday, October 27, 2017
Is romantic love of the ego?
Romantic relationship itself is of Ego. It takes clear realization of who you are and where you stand in Existence to see the illusion of romantic love or romantic relationship. Even lust will cease, once you see who you really are.
Romantic relationship are not built on love. Romantic relationship are built on lust, on carnal desires as a person. Romantic love is not love alone. Romantic love means ego using love instead of love alone in action. Love does mot see two. Love does not see forms. Love sees love.
Romantic love needs lust. Love can be gentle and even use romance; however, love will not be sedated with lust. Romantic love will expire. Love never expires. What ever love you hade that expired was lust using love. Either lust of the flesh, money, power, prestige, fame or some kind of relief from loneliness. It was not love.
These romantic love always get revealed in time. They usually invlove jealousy and quarrel. Love simply let go and accept what is with the door always open for assistance and support. A romantic relationship closed the door tightly with a do not disturb sign as a separation. They were two and never one. That is how you can be in lust and in need and be jealous.
Love does not need. Love wants to and choose to. Love see, understand and give appropriately. Love is not blind like lust neither. And love is always stronger than the one that needs.
There is always love, but not always romantic love. Romantic love is tinted love. It is suffocation of love. There's always jealousy there!