Wholeness does not mean perfection. It means embracing brokenness as an integral part of life.
The ego is not an enemy. Be kind. Consider the terror of falseness. The ego is a confused child.
The ego's life is threatened every time you go into the unknown by questioning your thoughts. It's the ego's fear of discovery. We're talking about identity,
Identity is the ego's religion. What are you believing?
Byron Katie on Meeting the Ego with Unconditional Love, Practice the The Power of Self-Inquiry, + Doing "The Work" to Unveil Your Truth - not the world'