Balance is Key in Life

 

 “Your hand opens and closes, opens and closes.
If it were always a fist or always stretched open,
you would be paralysed. Your deepest presence is
in every small contracting and expanding,
the two as beautifully balanced and coordinated
as birds' wings.”
― Rumi, The Essential Rumi
You can think of the hand closing as male or conservative or action.

You can think of the hand opening as female, liberal or intention.

So if unbalanced, if always male or female, conservative or liberal, and or action or intention, then you can be stuck in that place.