Become a Neutron

In my guided Loving Kindness Meditation, there is a bit about if one cannot get over the anger, at least "neutralize" the relationship. In other words take the "charge' off of it. Looking at it from a quantum perspective, one can think of the atom with the positively charged electrons and the negatively charged protons then the uncharged much larger neutron in the middle. Equanimity is taking the neutral path between the charged ones! Or taking the "Middle Path" between the charged ones. What do you think! Ron Alexander