Working on not being the ultimate judge or critic...

Andy Skadberg

I am still working on not being the ultimate judge or critic. Sarcastic humor, or degrading others is not in my best interest, or the other persons. Settling within myself as not better or worse than others sets me free from the prison I might be inclined to create because of various conditioning. To see and know that Love, is truly everything. To leave image based judgements behind brings bliss, joy and abundance of wonder. I have more to do, but I am extremely happy with my progress. Thank you, difficult people, for teaching me more and more about love. I am getting better one breath at a time. This little guy is one of my reasons that I persist in this effort

Mary Thornton Blue: And what a beautiful reason! He can be my reason, too. We have to leave him a better world than this one. Your post is making me examine some of my recent thoughts and comments.
Andy Skadberg: Thank you Mary. This is what it takes, just to stop and notice what Desmond has taught me is "self talk" which repeated often enough begins to stream from my mouth. I just have to examine how I feel in my tummy, and general demeanor. My mother many years ago talked abo...ut bio-feedback. Now we get this NEW science about the discovery of the Vagus nerve and they are talking about bio-electrics. Hmmm sounds amazingly similar. But my consciousness is the ultimate captain. How am I Sharing with the world and those around me? Have I lost some of the luster that these young people share each day? Am I being loving and kind to the best of my ability? Desmond has set a very high bar for me. His books constantly strive for more pure and powerful words with which he is creating with, and if I follow quickly, I will get to be one of the folks who enjoys this ride that much more because I am conscious and aware. Many have been poisoned by the language they have been eating and then sharing. Many times ignorant of their ultimate responsibility for their thoughts words and actions. There are many digressions in this world, and distractions - but ultimately our Breath, and skill-set and dedicated effort to share love is what brings the greatest joy and satisfaction.